one chance part 2
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Ya um im the guy who posted this question.
I already have a strong relationship with her.
I already do all that.
My question was that if she starts to let me in and i see that she wants to but is afraid to give me the chance, I have to choose my words carefully.What should i say to get her to give her the strength to let me in and give her the chance?
Like "I love you. Let me love you." BUT BETTER.
THERE has to be this one thing that a person can say in this situation that hits home.
I just need a couple of suggestions.
"Im here with you now.Ive always been here.Be with me from now on."
Or something that sums up past, present to try and give us a future.
I need suggestions for how to move her, and touch her to once and for all act, and take the path she never did and let me in.
You should avoid looking for "magic words."
This will never work, because if you memorize something it will always come over as false and artificial. So don't choose your words carefully. Instead speak with sincerity and thoughtfulness so your underlying message gets through. That's what will touch her.
Think over what you are trying to accomplish in a general way (and you had some good ideas above...especially the past, present, and future idea). The basic ingredients of what you say should include your undying love, the past you shared, your desire to be friends, your need for a second chance, and your promise of a bright future.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com