Suspenseful Friendship part II

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Suspensefull Friendship cont.

Alright. I'm planning on asking her out somtime during da summer, but first i think i should start off by gettin her number from myspace. But heres her problem. Out of all da boyfriends she's ever been with, she sais that she has never been n love b4.(Basically because she is sooo fine, dats all that the other boyz see, how she looks, even when they say they love her, they might jus love the way she looks but they dont really love her) n me i wanna b da one to encourage her n also show her wut real love iz. So im not n a rush to ask her out. [Back n middle skool we liked each other but decided to be friends since we were n different grades n we hardly ever saw each other at skool.] N everywhere i c her she's always startin at me from time to time. Summertime iz approaching and this would b a perfect time to take her places n finally ask her out. i want to let her know that i really wanna get to know her and hang out sumtimes. I jus need to know how can i ask her so that she wouldnt think i wanna go with her yet, then later, how can it b possible for us to go out n da summertime as friends(like how can i convince her to convince her parents' trust n me for a night at da movies n stuff like dat )Thats all i need to know n i will be on my way because like i said its clear dat we both have anattraction 4 each other Advice
My advice is to start making a strong move now.

She is very attractive and if you wait around too much, some other guy is going to get her attention. Then you will be out of luck.

Ask her to hang out now and after a few weeks ask her out on a date. Her parents shouldn't mind unless she is a lot younger than you. But my guess is that you are only a year apart.

Then if your dates go well, ask her to be your girlfriend.

Hope this works... it's better than waiting until the summer.

Good luck! George

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