i want her back
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I am 27, and she is 24, we met 4 months ago and everything just clicked, but she had a boyfriend. 2 months ago we went out and had a great time, stayed the night together, but did not fool around. that was great for both of us, then we started dating. I was patient while she decided to break up with her ex, and she did. Everything was great up to now and for a week after her breakup, we met families and friends, everything happened fast. but he started calling and played a guilt trip on her, she felt bad, and wanted to talk to him. I got upset, and we talked about it, but i strongly urged her to stay away from him. she decided after the conversation she needed time before a commitment, but wont even date now..How should i get her back, we still talk and see each other and its friendly talk, and she still looks at me as she did before. How can i convince her i am the man for her without making her feel pressured or guilty?
Tell her you are sorry you pressured her and made her feel guilty about her ex.
Tell her you don't mind it if she talks with him because that's the only way to find out if she is really over him.
Then sit back and wait for her to decide.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com