Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
theres this girl that i like and who would like to get 2 knw and go out but things is she doesnt like (i knw dis cauz i was told) but i still want2 try. thngs is im really shy and she is also. i get nervouse tlkin 2 her and i neva knw wat 2 tlk bout or anythng. we tlk a little on the net but shes rarely on and in school i only said hi like once (gotta wrk on tht huh )so wat should i do 2 get over my shyness and get close 2 her?
Saying a simple hi is easy.
When you see her in the hall, look her straight in the eyes, say in a clear voice "hi" plus her name, and give her a big smile. Do this every chance you get unless she seems to be annoyed by it after the first few tries.
Talking topics: family, pets, friends, school, teachers, weather, music, cable, sports, vacations, hobbies, etc. In advance, have some questions or statements ready to talk about with her. Since she is shy, she will delight in hearing your talking no matter what it is about. What is the most fun thing you have in life that you can talk with her about? Talk then.
Share information with her, share feelings, and be affectionate (compliment her, hug her, smile a lot).
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com