one chance...

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Long story short ive been through it all with this girl the last few years, LOADS of rediculous crap and timing COMPLETELY out of my hands has happened to, put it politely, F*** me over and make me question my sanity and if im fighting fate itself. Cuz i watch her hook up with people who dont care and dont do a damn thing for her.

I think i only have one last chance to reach the girl that i love. But so far she doesnt see me for who i am.Even though ive told it to her face and proven it through years of amazing acts of love and care that im proud to have done.

So this is pretty much do or die...even if it makes her think later about me.This is an important conversation.

My question is:
Say i START to reach her and she starts asking me little questions that are important to her, what do i do or say to keep her in that state where she is finally listening to me? I wont have a big window.So what i say and do has to count at that exact moment.

What can i say or do to give her the courage to take the step to give me a chance to show her love like she has never known, and for ONCE AND FOR ALL FOR HER TO LET ME IN? Advice
Try to build a strong relationship with her.

To do this, use communication (by sharing information), compassion (by sharing personal feelings), and attraction (by hugging, complimenting and smiling a lot). These are vital ways to strenghen your relationship.

When she talks with you make sure you understand what she is asking. Find out by paraphrasing what she says before answering. Doing so will also give you time to think about your answer. Don't paraphrase very simple questions or you will look like a dunce.

If you are reasonably good about doing the above, she will probably let you get closer to her and you will have your chance.

Good luck! George

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