can i have him back while its long distance relationship? how?

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Well, me and him were dating for almost 3 years.. However, when our relationship in 1 1/2 years, i decided to study overseas and we have a long distance relationship since then..
At first, everything was okay.. we always keep in touch by sms and phone.. but suddenly.. 4 days ago he wants to break up.. he said that he was not feel what he used to feel about me.. he said that his love to me was kinda fade but not fading at all.. and after a long talk.. i knew that the things that causing us break up is because i dont really care with him.. and im really really regret it.. i asked him for another chance but he didnt want.. he said he is too afraid to take another try, he said he dont want to hurt me later..he dont blaming me for all of that.. but i just dissapointed with my self.. i really want him back.. any advice for me how to get him back? (nb: currently im still study at overseas.. and he is at our hometown.. the distance between us makes me feels hard to follow all the suggestion.. since all the suggestion is not for Long distance relationship)..
thanks before.... Advice
It's only been four days.

He could change his mind very easily after he thinks about it.

Continue to ask him to give you another chance and perhaps he will.

Don't give up so soon. Four days is nothing.

Tell him it makes no sense to throw away so much time together.

Good luck! George

-- from George
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