What to do, when he won't let me go?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
My ex boyfriend and I been together for two years. Weve been officially broken up for about three weeks now,but weve still been around each other jus like we are still a couple. We suppose to be working on our relationship. But he has put me through so much pain, by cheating and we argue all the time because all his friends comes before me. Everytime I try to leave him along for good he keeps coming around. He keep telling me that he not going to let me go and that he is not going to accept me moving on to someone new. but he is not trying to do right by me either. And to make matters worst I have this dude who really likes me and wants to take me out, and i like him, but im still in love with my ex boyfriend. I'm so weak and I dont know what to do. I love him so much and I just wish that he would realize that he had a good woman. I dont kno what to do and I just dont understand why he just cant be a better man. What should I do?
Tell him that you are going to start dating.
Then do it. Explain to him that he is your preference but so long as he acts so badly then you won't be with him.
Don't back down on this, it is very important for him to understand.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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