Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. About the 2nd year into it, I made friends with a guy. I kissed him on the cheek once and he stopped being my friend. I saw him about a year ago and we went shopping and reunited our friendship. My boyfriend and I started declining in our relationship around september. My friend started being friendlier around december. Now I'm with my friend once a week, playing dungeons and dragons with the boys who all tell me to break up with my boyfriend and go out with my friend. My boyfriend and I have always fought about our different religions and I feel this relationship will go no where and that since I have been seeing my friend (although there has been no sex or sex acts)I feel confused. I almost feel peer-pressured into dateing my friend and dumping my boyfriend. I feel bad for what I do, but I have tried talking to my boyfriend and he does not want to fix our problems. What should I do?
Tell your bf that if he isn't intersted in fixing your problems you might decide to split with him.
Also tell him you have another male friend you are interested in and that makes it even more important for you and your bf to have a strong bond.
This is the honest way to go and should definitely get your BF's attention.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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