dumped and want him back

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
my boyfriend and i have been together for nearly 4 years. weve had our ups and downs. And recently he broke it off because of communication and trust {which to me seems like an unsual reason to break up}. surprisingly after he broke it off he told me he loves me. immediately after he broke up with me, he was hugging, kissing, play fighting with me...not to mention that he just bought me a ring {sized wrong} and told me that we'll go together to get it sized, and still wanted me to go to his house, and be friends. its been nearly a week, and he has been calling me at most 8 times a day. im trying to play hard to get and making it seem as though i have been happy saying "ive been having a great day" or just seeming not affected by the breakup. as i am telling him this, i realize he's getting affected by what I am saying. An example, he was having a horrible day at work, and i tell him that my day was great {which it actually was} and he seems upset by it, as though he expected me to be depressed. he then asks me if i have met any guys, and i say no. it seems like he can not get over me, and constantly seeks my attention by texting, calling, and Instant Messaging...i want him back obviously, what steps can i take to make him see that he wants to be with me too.

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He told you he loved you and is contacting you incessantly. There is a ring.

There is not much doubt that he wants to be back with you. Ask him to go to dinner with you and my guess is that he will ask you to be his again.

Good luck! George

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