he loves me...but hes still with his gf of 2 yrs
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I apologize if this seems a bit complicated.
I've known the guy I like for almost 3 years, (Im almost 16) but ive only been close friends with him for about a year. He's been dating a girl for 2 1/2 years now, but their relationship is starting to fall apart...he says he has lost trust in her and feels she is not fair in tehir relationship.
he has fallen in love with me...a few months back, he admitted he liked me, and i admitted i liked him. then him and his gf began to work things out again, only to start fighting again. Recently, he told me he has fallen in love with me, and told me he loved everything about me, and that he wishes this could all be easier.
he doesnt want to hurt his gf because theyve been through so much, yet he really likes me AND her.
I'm very lost and somewhat hurt, and I dont want this to end badly.
What is some advice from an outsider? I need all the suggestions/help i can get.
THANK YOU very much for your time.
He can't have everything.
It isn't fair to you and it is especially unfair to her for him to be deceiving her. He needs to make up his mind and fast. He owes her a lot after all the time they spent together. If he is going to choose you, let him make the decision. Otherwise he will end up blaming you for busting up his relationship with the other girl.
Let him know he needs to make up his mind because otherwise he is toying with two different lives. If he is a decent person he will not prolong his decision.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com