I want her back.
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
My X and i have been dateing for a little over a year, things were going great, then i left for school. Still going good just got a little hard, but i came home every weekened to see her, she works 4 days a week and goes to school 5 days a week, so i know she is busy. She was talking about getting married and wanted me to ask her. All signs were pointing good. Just before our one year she asked to go on a break, it was hard for me, so i kinda pushed her back in, she seemed happy again, three weeks after our one year, i thought things were going good, i was going though finals so i was busy she knew that, i called her one day she stayed home from school, we talked for ten mins then i told her i was going to get in the shower and call her back, she sounded all upset on the phone, so i called her back and she told me she needed some time to herself and she wanted to break up. that being hard for me also, i tried to give her, her space. I came home for break and things were alright she told me if i back off we would be together within a month she just needed time, she would tell me she loves me but not all the time just sometimes. I texted her on morning telling her i love her and i hope everything went good last night and i cant wait to see her. After this everything went crazy, she said that i messed up everything because i was trying to hard, and i need to just settle down and things would be ok, i did not talk to her for the rest of the day, she called me up the next morning we texted while she was at school. she blew off one of her friends so we could go to the basketball game, good game we left early and went back to her parents house and hung out with them, and then grabbed a bite to eat, then i dropped her off. a hug goodbye was it, she called me ten minutes later we talked for a bit, then went talked online for 30 mins or so, just about the night and how she was doing, then she texted me for like 10 mins and that was about it. Nothing this morning but she did say she would call or text me during the day when she got a chance, i leave to go back to school in a week, what do i do?....Do you think i have a chance of getting her back?
Every sign points to you and her getting back together.
Just give her the space she is asking for and make her come back to you.
That's just what she asked you to do.
Good luck! George
-- from George
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