Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Yo George! How are ya! Well I need advice. (regarding my b/f)
Hmmmm, he has just finish his army and got a new job as a teacher. But he's changed a lot (in my point of view) but he said he's feeling is still same as before. Everytime i feel less. :( As a girl, i want that lovey-dovey stuff...u know like mushy-mushy talks, even if he is busy or whatever-ever reason he is, i am easily pleased with just one email or 1 miss call from him. It just lights up my soul.
He has understood this. Also he said he needs me to refresh him when he feelin 'away from himself' something like this.
What is wrong with him. Why he is always lost of thoughts, emotions...and i am very scared bcus he told me his mother doesnt like a foreign girl. and he said to me not to worry cus she will like me when she sees me.
Everything he said is fine, well i trust him like hell but the way he reacting i feel something is wrong. He wont tell me anything and said that i am finding problem with him. then he got angry and then leave but not soo bad cus he is still easy on me.
How should i tackle his feelings. If he is near me, i would have give him a goood kiss but too bad we're world apart...i cant wait to kiss him for real but i cant travel yet...finance problem!. HOW GEORGE!!!?? Tell meee
He seems to be having a hard time adjusting to his new life.
And the stress of the long-distance romance is also weighing him down.
It doesn't help when you pressure him about his feelings when he is probably depressed. You should accept him as he is for at least two or three months and be a source of joy for him. Things will be smoother that way.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com