I want him back
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Me and my ex have been off and on for the past 3 years. About a year ago, I lied to him about something that made him lose his trust in me. Since then I have been trying to get that trust back. We are currently broken up, and we have a 2 year son together. After the break up he didn't want to have any contact with me unless it was about our son, then he started to talk to me more and more. Then he let me move my things back to our place, but he didn't want to live together anymore. He wants to be just friends, but with benefits and I don't want that. He says that we can't be together because he doesn't love me. Well, I am now living with him now, and he hasn't shown any sign if we are going to work things out at all. He still sleeps in the bed with me and he flirts a lot. And when I go out with my friends he calls me at least two times to see what I am doing and who I am with. So I am just confused because he claims that he doesn't care that I go out, but he wants to know every detail as to what I do, and who I am with. So I am thinking that he is trying to trust me again before he pursues something more with me. So my question is what do you think about this situation that I am in?
I think you have analyzed the situation correctly.
He is learning to trust you again. Also, since you are sleeping together he will find the closeness strong enough to attract him to you again.
You seem to be in a good position.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com