Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
me & my ex have been goin out 4 3 months but we broke up 3 days ago. for some reason she has been thinking about another boy. she claims that she loves me and not him but doesnt know why she thinks of him (she did use 2 like him b4 tho) so we decide 2 break up but we did it with doubts. i only agree bcauz i thought it will help her recover sooner cauz i cant stand 2 c her hurt and will do anythng 2 make her happy again. even tho its over i continue 2 help thru dis confusin she has. i tld her tht even tho we arent together, im not leavin her hurt and will replace the black hole she has instead of a heart. i think we may have another chance 2gether but im lookin rite now 2 help her heal. but i ask if its even worth it? i guess im askin, what should i do now? i would love 2 have her back in my arms, but im lookin 2 help her out not win her back.....what should i do? thnxs in advance
Make sure she knows that you still care for her and miss her.
Make sure she knows that you are only doing this to help her and that you don't want to see her hurting.
You've probably done this already, but it is important to mention it. She will feel much better knowing that you are supporting her and there for her if she needs you.
You've been broken up such a short time that you may get back together really soon or maybe a week or two. My opinion is that his is what will happen. So you really don't have to do anything except what you've already been doing which is to help her feel better. She will appreciate you for it.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com