after 7 years she broke up with me
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I WAS IN A RELATIONSHIP FOR JUST UNDER 7 YEARS WITH MY GIRLFRIEND IM 24 AND SHES 22 IT HAS BEEN A VERY GOOD RELATIONSHIP WE SHARED SOME LOVELY TIMES TOGETHER IT WAS REALY SPECIAL.WE HAVE HAD OUR FIGHTS JUST LIKE ANY NORMAL COUPLE BUT IN THE LAST 8 MONTHS WE HAVE STARTED FIGHTING ON NIGHTS OUT THE 1ST WAS ON HER BIRTHDAY NIGHT I GOT JELLOUS SO SHE BLAMED ME FOR WRECKING HER BITHDAY NIGHT THEN THE SAME THING HAPPEND ON NEW YEARS EVE.SINCE THE END OF JANUARY A GIRL FROM MY PAST HAS KEPT TEXTING ME AND MY EX SAYING SHE WANT ME TO GO FOR A DRINK WITH HER I DID NOT RESPOND TO HER.A WEEK AGO WE WENT OUT FOR A NIGHT OUT AND WE HAD A FIGHT CAUSE THE GIRL FROM THE PAST SAID SHE WAS GOIN TO TURN UP SO THE TENSION WAS HIGH COMING TO THE END OF THE NIGHT WE HAD A FIGHT AND I SAID TO MY EX I WAS GOIN TO SEE THE GIRL FROM THE PAST I KNOW THAT WAS WRONG BUT I DIDNT SEE HER. AFTER THAT NIGHT SHE SPLIT UP WITH ME THE FOLLOWING MORNING SHE SAID SHE HASNT BEEN HAPPY FOR A WHILE.I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO I LOVE HER TO BITS HER MUM KEEPS GETTING INVOLVED SAYING LEAVE HER ALONE AND HER BEST FRIEND KEEPS GETTING INVOLVED I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO PLEASE HELP MANY THANKS.
I've noticed that some women change about age 21.
They want their space and room to spread their wings and fly.
Your GF may be in this frame of mind. What you can do is continue to be her best friend and be there for her when she falls from time to time.
Naturally this doesn't give you what you want immediately, but it could work in the long run.
And, who knows, she may be missing you right now, so keep your thinking attuned to that possibility.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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