I dunno what to do about it
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I have posted a question before about my bf that dumped me coz I was exaturating thingz and all, he kept giving me signals that he still cares he always stares at me and hug me or hold my hands.. 5 days ago he saw me at college i was sitting with my friends while he was sitting with his..he came up to me and sat next to me, we talked but i was kinda cool and all so i was like letz go sit with ur friends so he looked at me and said not now we will but later and he kept sitting next to me the whole time..then 2 days ago i called him up a lot of tims so he picked up all my phone calls even when he was busy at work..then he asked me whats up is everything ok coz its strange that u call me a lot.. so i was like its nothing dont worry and plus u r at work now so i wont be able to talk to u coz ur busy so maybe someother time he said ok but half an hour later he got online on messenger he said he got home just to talk to e and see whats going on.. so he knew i was still in love with him and all he said u r making it harder for me so i was like am sorry i guess i should keep this to myself i really want u to focus on ur work studies and have fun but plz just leave it for me I cant let go of my feelingz for u in a blink of an eye but dont worry it would be ust fine so he was kinda sad and all then he said i have a new gf i said what? no u dont so he invited her to the conversation.. we talked and I was soooo cool i was like gurl u're lucky to have him just keep it on ur mind, then he said well am sorry i hope u wont be hurt but i found all the maturity that i was lookin for in her..and we have the same passion for rock music thats when i was like why is he doing this? so i said well gr8 guyz hope things will go gr8 between u 2 so she said we're not rushing anything we're going step by step but whatever, then she said brb so he said plz call me ryt now so i said wait till ur gurl gets here and i'll call u then so he said dont worry i will tell her l8r so i said ok then i called him and he was so sad or sumthn he barely said a word he just said r u angry or sumthn? so i said naaah man! am happy for u yo know i have always wanted whats best for u so hope this is the best thing 4 u ..i said well are u happ with her so he said i dunno i mean i really dunno..i said why didnt u tell me before? he said coz i knew i'd hurt u and u'd get angry so i said no i wont you know me! he said thats the problem, I know you thats why i didnt tell u so i was like no itz really fine with me congratulations and hope thingz will go as good as itshould be he said i dunno so i was like ok lets go back to the chat so he said well she is going out anyways so i was like its ok anyways, take care bye so he stood silent for a couple of secnds then said bye so i hang up. then on msn he never said a word his gurl got off the conversation and then i told him ur gurl is so sweet and nice, wish u luck anyways i gotta head to bed ryt now..take care and nighty.. he didnt reply!
now I get thisfeeing that he isnt seeing a new gurl he just did that so i can forget about him or sumthn coz on v.day we spent an hour and a half together and he didnt say a word about that and he hugged me and held my hands and kept looking at me the whole time no1 ever told me he is seeing some1 else although i told every1 am sure he is but they all were like no he isnt.
the prob is i was his 1st love we were going to get engaged and all but i messed everything up by making a big deal out of silly stuff so he said he had enough..now what should I do? why did he sound sad on phone and all?
It sounds like he still cares for you.
You need to make sure that he knows you still care for him and want him back. Tell him you deserve another chance and that you are working hard to get rid of the bad habit that bothers him.
If my hunch is right, he will be happy to come back to you.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com