Does he Want Me Back?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I want my ex back. We have been broken up for 4 years now, but I find myself always thinking of him and wanting him. We still talk quite a bit and he always comes over to my house to hang out. There have even been some nights where I have fallen asleep in his arms (only because he wouldn't let me go). Does this mean he still cares about me? I have always wanted to be with him. Is there any chance of getting him back?
Well first, I have to say that any man that lets you stay over for hours at a time and falls asleep with you DOES like you. Hopefully that's pretty obvious :) He wouldn't do all of that if he disliked you!
All great relationships are founded on great friendships, where the two of you are very comfortable with each other and can talk about all sorts of things. It seems like you have that foundation. You're already at the hugging/holding stage. So try a long, soothing backrub to increase the touch level. When you leave him, instead of just hugging good bye, give him a kiss on the cheek each time. You'll find out very quickly if he likes this things or if he's uncomfortable!
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com