What should i believe?
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 9 months and i really love him. We are both 15. People say you cant love when your a teenager but i love him and he tells me he loves me. Things were so perfect, we were the couple everyone wanted to be. He was sweet, caring just perfect. We clicked ever since we 1st met. We never used to have arguments. Until now. The other night he went to our mates party. i couldnt go because i was ill but i told him to go and have a good time. There was alcohol at the party and everyone was sleeping over. I texted him in the morning asking if he had a good time, but he didnt text back. So i went out with my mum and dad. Then later on my friend (who was a the party) phoned me. She told me that my boyfriend got too drunk on the night and kissed another girl. I was upset about this but i thought i could forgive him becasue he was drunk. However he did something worse. My friend carried on saying, in the morning he kisses a different girl, my friend said he was not drunk. When i spoke to my boyfriend about it he said he was still drunk and didnt no what he was doing. I dont no what to believe! i told him i need time and space to think but he keeps telling me that he is sorry and he loves me and doesnt want to break up. What should i do? Who should i believe? Can you still be drunk in the morning? Should i dump him? I want to.. but i love him too much. Please help!
Yes, you can still be drunk in the morning if you drink enough.
My advice is to forgive him but tell him if it ever happens again he is history.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com