Really confused about ex and mixed signals
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
my ex and i dated for a year and broke up about 4 months ago. What we had was real, but he suddenly just got really cold and we were fighting all the time. When we first broke up i was devastated and took it really hard and would cry for him to come back, which probably pushed away more. I really want him back in my life. We stopped talking for a few weeks and he called and asked to meet him. He says he hates when we don't talk and im not around. He says he really still cares about me and wants to be friends to work on things, and hopes one day we can get back together. He always says he'll call and never does. I'm not sure if he actually means what he says or if he just wants me to stay in his life for whenever he needs me. How do i get him to come home?
Do what he suggested.
Be his friend and work toward getting back together.
If he doesn't call you then you should call him.
Only time will tell what his real intentions are.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com