Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Me and my first love have been broken up for 8 months now and she also has had a bf for around 6 months now. In the beginning we hooked up and she essentially cheated on the guy yet she still insists on being with him and wants me and her to be friends. I love this girl greatly and would love to work things out with her but the problem is I have trouble keeping my emotions in check because it hurts that she is with him. She insists on being friends and says she does have feeling for this guy but never admits that we will never work out when I ask her. She says she is afraid for us to get back together because things didnt work out before ( because she cheated on me). I am wondering should I move on with the situation or be friends with her and try to keep the spark because there will always be a spark. Any advice would be great, I am so confused. Thank you and have a great day,
She cheated on you and now she is cheating on her BF.
You can't trust her so don't invest time in her. Say good bye to her and move on.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com