How do I convince a very stubborn and jealous man I didn't cheat

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I was very in love. For the first time I had found someone romantic and seemed to want to marry me.We both were a bit jealous. However, his jealousy became strange. Once he accused me of being stimulated by someone while I was on the phone with him. He said he knew because I laughed funny while on the phone with him. I had a roomate who used me and was mean to me often. I finally left my roomate. The night I left my roomate the roomate lied to my boyfriend telling him I had cheated. He has broken up with me, called me names, and will not listen to me. He will not take my phone calls or e-mails. I feel so sad, frustrated and for some stupid reason I'm still in love. The more I try to get a hold of him the more he calls me names. He calls me a stalker. He also has made threats to not give me back my belongings I left at his home from when I lived with him in the past. Advice
You are right, he is very stubborn.

Could you try to get your ex-roommate to call him and correct the record?

You have had the bad experience of having two bad people around you which is unfortunate.

Tell him that you will bring the cops into it if he won't give you your possesion back

Well, you are good to be rid of him because trust is one of the important things in a good relationship.

Good luck! George

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