I want her back
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Ok I had this girl and got to know each other during the summer and we eventually started going out. After about 2 months of being together she tells me she needs a break so I said ok. After about a month she started going out with another guy and she told me he wanted to do stuff with her. They broke up a few weeks ago and know he has another gf and I asked her if i still had a chance with her and I think she took it the wrong way as if I was asking her out when I was just seeing whether or not I had a chance in the future of getting back together. She responded in a text message and it said that she had been thinking and it said that she still liked me but she also really liked him and she cant get over it and how it would be unfair for me and she said if things change she would let me know. So I was wondering what I can do about this.
Ask her if you can be friends.
Ask if you can call her once a week just to touch bases to see how you are doing. Keep the call short so she can have her space and don't talk about relationships.
Maybe these short talks will keep you in her mind so if she needs someone she might come to you.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com