Confused and so in love
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I sent u a question last week about me and my bestfriend, he's 3 years younger than me and he lives in another country but we meet 2 months every year, i think i rlly love him and im pretty sure specially after he came for a visit this week and i met him today and he was rlly sweet rlly caring , missed everyone else but just hung out with me the whole time, he just treats me better than he usually treated his ex-girlfriends, i know u'd never tell if he likes me...but i just dont know what to do, im rlly afraid to tell him and then feel akward if he doesnt like me back, and risk this gr8 relationship...he even told me he wud come to study in a university in my country to be able to be with me the whole time, he even always thinks about our age difference and like implies to me that he's scared i wud not like him more than a friend because of tht...he even sometimes jokes about marrying me when we're older...always calls me beautiful and just perfect for him....but dont know do u think i should tell him or there is any other way to know if he likes me or just get over him though i think it wud be very hard for me......PLEASE HELP
Tell him you are developing strong feelings for him.
He should then tell you how he feels. Since he has alredy promised to go to school in your country that should be enough for you to know already--if you don't want to bring the subject up.
From all you said, it sounds like he has very strong feelings for you too. Maybe you should assume that it is true and see what develops.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com