what should i do?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
my boyfriend and i broke up and i started seeing someone else. he started calling me all the time and txting me all the time. i would talk to him but not get back with him cause i wanted to see if he really cared. well he called and said he loved me and really needed me in his life and i told him i loved him too... well he asked me to call him later and i did. another girl answered his phone! he went partying! i talked to him the next day and he said he just didnt think it would work cause i asked him to wait and he was sick of waiting. i know i wasnt supposed to cry but i did on the phone. he said he loved me so much and wanted me so bad and couldnt imagine his life without me and then as soon as i go back he doesnt want it anymore. he said he would always love me i told him that was a slap in the face. he said he was sorry and i said goodbye. how do i make him want me again?
Ask you if you could continue to be good friends.
Ask to chat with him every now and then... say once a week for 1/2 hour just to see how each other are doing. Pretty soon you could suggest having coffee or hanging out to help get the embers rekindling.
You two seem pretty close together, hopefully this plan would ease you back into your old relationship.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com