Hes Hurt me, but i still love him.
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Me and my ex split up about 3 weeks ago after a 1year and 3 months relationship (im 17 hes 16 nealry turning 17). Weve been out before where it only lasted about a month, he went off with another girl then he regretted it. And the same thing has happened again. We were in love, (each others first love) and we were happy, then he met this girl, they would stop at each others, call and text ect. it REALLLY annoyed me, i told him about how i felt and he told me to stop being silly, they were just friends and he sees her as a sister. We started to argue alot, then he broke up with me. I was distraught and so was he. He said we would get back 2gether, that we both needed time to calm down. Turns out about a week after we split him and that girl got 2gether. he said he didint love me anymore. He lied to me and led me on. He still looks at me, attempts to make convo with me and touches me like in a playful manner. Im really confused. But i love him and want him back. He has tried to make me jelous by rubbing the fact that hes got a girlfriend in my face and has said some really mean things about me, he apologised and i accepted. I really want him back. I could either be the 'Mate' that the girl was to him and try to rekindle our love or i could ignore him completley. I know for a fact hes on the re-bound i mean a WEEK after a long serious relationship hes with someone else?! Why would he even try and make me jelous if he didnt care for me?
I want him back. So badly. What should i do ? Please help! i know he still cares.
Yes, your idea of being a friend is a good one.
If you ignore him completely you run the risk of losing him completely. Besides, it is not an honest way to act.
Build your relationship by communicating ideas, sharing feelings, anad being affectionate (hugs, compliments.)
Hopefully, he will come back to you if you use these methods.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com