Should I keep calling?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
I've been seeing this girl for a while now and we talk every single day. I believe we are falling in love, or so i feel i am and she tells me she is too. The reason we are not going out yet is because she tells me she needs time to just be free and have some fun, being that she just got out of a one year relationship. She still talks to her ex sometimes and i trust her because i feel that if she was doing something wrong she wouldnt be telling me they talk. Well anyways, just yesterday i got home from work, i noticed i had a missed call from her and a text message saying and i quote "i feel like shit", so i called her back, no answer... so i thought okay maybe she will call me back, so i waited a few hours and still no reply from her so i called her back a couple of times, still no answer... I thought this was odd being that she always returns my calls or she tells me if something is wrong. The whole day goes by and i dont recieve a single call or text message from her. The next day goes by and i wake up and i immediatly check my phone and still no reply. So i called her up and its the same thing, no answer. I call her back to her house phone and her sister answers and tells me she is on the other line and i could reach her on her cell phone. So im thinking okay i guess everything is okay with her but why havent i recieved a call from her? Should i keep trying to get ahold of her, or should i wait to see if she calls me? If i do wait, what if she never calls? What should i do?
Well, I am only guessing, but there may be a chance that she got back together with her ex.
That would explain why she hasn't called or returned your calls. She is too embarrassed to talk with you about it.
See if you can find out through the grapevine what she is up to.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com