Help with getting my ex back
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
My ex girlfriend and I broke up my junior year we dated for about eight months i'm not a senior. Since then we have been really close friends. i have told her how i feel about her but she never gives me a response back. I don't know how she feels about me but i know i want to be back with her. She said we broke up because she wasn't ready for any kind of serious relationship and it was bad timing. Does this mean she wants me to ask her now? She just got out of a relationship that took its toll on her and she doesn't trust any guy now and says she will have to wait and find another guy to renew her faith in men. She says she just wants to be single but she said that after we broke up and about 2 months later started dating this guy. We are really close but i'd like to be more then friends. What should i do? she's not like most girls and the tips don't work on her. She confides in me for a lot of stuff i feel i may have become more of a girlfriend to her then anything else i've tried to make it so she can see me as a guy that she could date. We go out all the time like for instance we are going to prom and hanging out valentines day and we have done this kind of stuff all the time but we are just friends. What does all this mean? Is she giving mixed messages or am i just wanting us to get back together so bad i'm misinterpreting things that happen or that are said to make me feel that she is giving messages that she likes me?
If she liked you as more than a friend then she would give you signals.
Instead she is giving you the opposite signals such as not responding when you tell her how you feel about her.
My advice is to see her as a friend and enjoy that as much as you can.
Meanwhile look for a girlfriend.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com