Should I go or stay?

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Dear George,
I've been going out with this guy for three months now. He's only 26 but I'm 30. Everything has been great, except that there is one serious problem: He doesn't want commitment. I'm already 30 and ready to look for someone to settle down with, but he's only wanting to "have fun." I'm so frustrated with myself that I'm at this age and unable to find a man whom I like who would be willing to commit to me. I'm not asking him to marry me right now, but at least I need to know that it is possible for the relationship to head in that direction, but at this point he doesn't want that. I'm so heart-broken .... What should I do? Should I stay, hoping that he might change. or should I leave? There are three other men who want to go out with me, but I'm totally not attracted to any of them. I just can't even imagine having to kiss any of them, but the truth is, these men are in their late 30s so they might be ready to settle down. I can't think anymore, whether I should go for "love" or a chance to settle down .... Would you please advise? Thank you! Advice
My advice is to only date men who are reasonably ready to settle down.

You sound like an attractive woman so keep looking around for the right guy. No reason to waste your time on someone who is into partying only.

Life is short... live it the way you want to.

Good luck! George

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