Making a Guy Jealous
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
My birthday is comming up and i am inviting these two boys R and B. i adore B and i used to go out with R but he still likes me and to B i dont even exist.
I want to make B jealous by like kind of flirting with R. what should i do?
NO NO NO!!! That is the WORST thing you can even possibly dream of doing. That is the sort of thing guys HATE, when girls play silly games with them. I know many, many guys who were interested a girl and then swore they would never talk to that girl again after witnessing the exact sort of mind game. Don't even think about trying to 'hurt a guy on purpose to get him interested'. It might work in movies. It causes huge problems in real life.
If you want B to be interested in you - then show him you're an interesting person!! I have a whole area on attracting boyfriends -
So be HAPPY, be fun, be someone he would enjoy spending time with. Don't obsess over your looks or your flaws. Just accept them and be content with the way you are. Guys really like girls that just are happy. They are sick of girls who moan and groan about how awful their thighs are or whatever. They want to have fun, they don't want to be a psychiatrist.
That is what gets a guy interested in you.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com