What should i do? How can i get her back?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
My gf just broke up with me like 35 days ago. The reason she gave was that she just wanted to be friends and she's wasn't used to be in a relationship anymore. I've sent her messages and even wrote letters to her about my feelings for her. I asked her once if she misses me and she said a little. The first few weeks after the breakup was tough for me. My self-esteem was so low that all i could do was to think of her and cry myself to sleep. I still love her so much. Then i heard from a classmate, B, me and my ex were quite close to him, say that she has a boyfriend from her job and i realized that she broke up with me because she already fell for somebody else. But then a few days ago, i found out something else. My class was having a bbq party soon and my ex and her friends aren't sure if they're going so i told one of her friends to go to the party and persuade my ex to go along and that she can bring her bf along but her friends said she has no boyfriend. Now i don't know what to believe. I'm hoping for the best that she's single. Since the breakup, we haven't talked much (we're in the same class). What should i do now? I want her back but i don't know how she feels for me. She's also changed her number and even B doesn't know her new number. B and i can tell that she's changed. She's not close to people she used to be close with, including me. Please tell me what i should do?
Since she won't talk to you, you are stuck.
Try to convince her to let you call her once a week for 15 min just to say hi and see how each other are doing. And, perhaps she will rekindle her feelings for you.
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Good luck! George
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