Cheating and best friend
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I am 18 and i have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. i have cheated on him with three different guys in the past year and a half. but the most recent had been with my best friend. i haven't exactly had sex with him yet but i have gotten very close. i feel that i am falling in love with my best friend and out of love with my boyfriend. last week i told my boyfriend that i didn't feel the same for him anymore and we broke up but this only lasted a few days and i gave into him. and i am having second thoughts on us getting back together. my best friend knew that we broke up but i haven't yet told my best friend that i was back with my boyfriend. should i tell my boyfriend and my best friend the truth? friends tell me i should stop being around the friend that i cheated on him with but when i am away from that friend i miss him so much i just feel like i need him. i am torn in two... any advice?
You should tell your BF that you aren't in love with him any more.
Tell him you have fallen for your best friend and want to be with him.
Once that is out of the way, tell your best friend that you have feelings for him and see what develops.
Try to avoid cheating any more. It isn't good for you.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com