Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
hi. its me again. well i finally spent sum time with her (not quite a date). neither of us said much but we had a nice time. and @ the end we hugged (and she was comfortable with me doing it) YAY ME! so i hav a couple of problems. 1 is how do i help her open up 2 me and not b so untalkative? and 2 is i want 2 b able 2 hav her comfortable with me kissing her, but how do i get her comfortable with me kissing her? cuz i think im going 2 try 2 hang out with her more often and eventually go on a real date with her. and i think im going 2 do something 4 her on valentines day 2, but i really want 2 kiss her! hav any advice? thanx
To help her to be more talkative try some of these ideas:
Smile often and look her in her eyes.
Have things to talk about such as school, family, pets, sports, hobbies, etc.
Tell her that you are trying to overcome your own shyness and that you need to practice together. Suggest that whenever you ask her a question that after answering it she should ask you the same question back.
Use her name when you talk to her, it will make her feel good and more relaxed.
As far as kissing goes... buy some of those valentine heart candies and look for ones that talk about kissing. Offer one after another to her and she might laugh. If you can get her laughing you have a good chance at as kiss. Also, if that doesn't work, just ask her if you can kiss her. That worked for hugs so why not try it again.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com