Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Okay I have been friends with a guy for almost a year. He was going out with my friend but they have broken up. And we have always hung out with each other, and he stays at my house once and awhile. We say we love each other, hug, and kiss on the cheeck.
It wasn't weird before or anything but now everyone seems to say that there are sparks when we are around each other and it's been bothering me. Because I do like him and everything just not sure if they are signs or not. I need help.
I would never, ever make decisions about my life based on what others told me to do. There are so many cases of others being wrong or misunderstanding things or simply screwing things up. The only thing that matters here is how you feel, and how he feels.
It sounds like you guys are already very close, which is great! If you are indeed intersted in him romantically, start to take things a step further. You already kiss and huge and say you love each other. So go to a romantic movie. Go out to dinner. Slowly increase the level of romance. If he is really uncomfortable with a stage, he'll let you know. But otherwise, you might find that you guys are really great together romantically.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com