im hopeless???

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
hi. its me (again) heres wats going on. i talked 2 her friday about how i felt about her being shy and how i felt about everything (that i was getting discouraged and depressed because she makes me think that she doesnt really like me) she makes no effort wat so ever 2 talk 2 me, she's STILL shy, I dont know how 2 help her with her shyness, i need 2 find subjects she can relate 2 (because i suck @ conversations), I dont even know if she considers me a friend @ the very least, and i dont know how much more of this I can take! we have never gone out yet, we barely talk have, but there are only 2 things that keep me going: 1- she still likes me and I want 2 have our ''relationship'' last 2- all of my friends tell me 2 be patient and have hope. any advice? Advice
Pretty much the same advice I gave you the last time.

More advice: buy a bag of hershey's kisses and give her one every day (you eat one too.) Did you ask her if you could hug her? Do that. Conversation is often as simple as asking her what she thinks of school, does she like any sports, and complimenting her on her hair or smile or clothing.

If at some point your patience runs out, at least you gave her a good chance.

Good luck! George

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