Help.. I'm confused

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male

My friend introduced me to this gal around 3 months ago, which i'm starting to fall in love with. We only went out for movie twice. We chat very little on the phone, even if I sms her, sometimes she don't reply. I don't really call her is coz I get dumbfounded when I speak with her. I asked her out on 14feb(vday) she said ok. what does this means? but I sent a short message to her a few days ago, she did not reply? Is she trying to play hard to get or there is something else? Is she even interetsed in me or just playing me around? I heard that she is quite popular, and I assume she has alot of suitors. What should I do to get myself notice and stand out? Advice
When you wrote your last query, I suggested you buy some books on dating.

I hope you did so because I can't give you enough help in a short online reply. If you are dumbfound talking to her on the phone, how do you think it will go in person on a date? Thinking of ways to stand out is something you have to do. It will be a combination of who you are are what type of person she likes.

It is also worth considering seeing a counselor for your shyness. Shyness can ruin your life if you don't catch it early.

Good luck! George

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