Make Her Like Me
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
I am in love with a girl, which I met on my vacation. My sister which is friend with this girl told me that she also likes me (she don't think I'm idiot) but she likes more someone else. I think that she don't know me very good and I tried to ask her going out but she said that she had to go out with her friends.
What should I do to attract her and make her learn and love me? I have also to say that I am very bashful but I think I can deal with this problem.
I think you missed my featured question/answer which said very clearly that you can NEVER make anyone like you or love you! All you can do is honestly present what you are and see if that is what she likes. What if she hates skiiers? What if skiing is your passion? If so then she would be the LAST person on earth that you would want to be dating. You want to find someone who also loves skiing, so that you two can ski together and enjoy it with each other.
I would never dive into asking someone out that you first met. You're setting up a situation where the answer will most likely be no. You want to get to know her first, to let her learn about you and come to understand you. The more she knows you, the more she'll think of you as a friend, meaning the more likely she will be to do things with you if you ask her.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com