I really love him... But I dont know what to do
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Ive been with my boyfriend for 3 years.. recently he broke up wit me on new years when he let his new girlfriend answer his phone... he's 18 she's 14... This is not the first time he broke up with me.. last time he broke up with me we wound up getting back together he just told me that he didnt want to be with me at the moment.. now he broke up with me for some one else and they seem so happy but he still tries to get in contact with me. he gets mad when he finds out that im dating telling me that he is going to beat up the other guy.. he told me that he still has feelings for me but then other times he acts like he hates me... he was my first and i cant seem to get over him... Then he tells me to deal with him having another girlfriend which im not.. Does he still love me do he want to get back together what is he trying to do... my mom tells me to make him respect me becuz it seems like he dont.. i need help!!!
Ex boyfriends often stay jealous of their ex's after the breakup.
It's probably a habit they get into of thinking you are "theirs." But he still has feelings for you so that is a factor too.
Since she is 14, he should be warned that some sexual behavior is against the law and he could be prosecuted for it.
Stay friends with him and he probably will come back to you. But just friends, nothing more.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com