I want to get his mood back up, how?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Hi, I am the girl with bf A and chasing guy B.
Well, I understand that I can go out with B agian, but the problem is that how can I get his mood up to chase me again when I go out with him? Anything particular that I need to do in order for him to have the feeling back? he isn't doing anything right now at all. Does that mean he doesnt' like me any more? How can i find out if he still likes me, without being embarrassed? If I hint something at him and he has no reaction, it'd be too embmarrassing. I want to get his mood back up to chase me agian like before. The question is how? he got no reaction now, plain frds attitude only.
I re-read your first query and it says that you have tried several things to get B's attention back on you... like you treating him to a birthday dinner and asking him if he likes you.
He probably will take a while before he comes back to you... if he ever does. You had him chasing you from Sept to Dec and told him in late Dec that you had broken up with A. You need to give it more time as friends before you can hope he will start chasing you again.
One thing you can try is to start giving hello and goodbye hugs, touching his arm, poking him... generally be flirty with him. That might catch his interest.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com