WHAT TO DO??
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
ok so i was datin a guy for about 4 months and while we wer together everything was great i mean he said the right thins we had good times together but of course we had our agruments. but at one point he had gave me his email and password to check sumthin for him and of course me being nosy i checked through his email not finding anything but then just recently i thought id check again, not bcuze i didnt trust him but becuz i was bored n just b nosy again but this time i found some girl writing him sayin.."i love you baby" and all this stuff so i ended up findin out who it was and confronted him about them being together he admitted to it and let me know that he was sorry and that he was feelin me but the fact we didnt get to see each other much thinz started goin downhill and he didnt wanna hurt me by breakin up with me because he knows i have depression problems and didnt want me to be upset but of course when i found out about this i was furious! so but he apologized and after a while we decided to become friends because i knew i couldnt completely shut him out of my life and neither could he and lately when we talk he still kind of flirts with me and makes me to believe that theres still felings there so my question is what should i do about the situation should i continue being friends with him knowin i still want more are let him know that i want more are i dont know what to do but im still crushing hard i feel i could be in love can you help me????
Let him know that you want more.
This is the up-front thing to do and will clear the air between you two.
He quite possibly feels the same about you.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com