I've fallen for my bestfriend who sees me nothing more...
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
ok i've fallen for my bestfriend. but before that i dated her sister (weird i know) is it wrong? my bestfriend and i are really really close that she only sees me as a "brother" and one of the closest person to her, someone that she can do and talk to about almost anything and someone she can reach out to. we practically do almost everything together. I WOULD DO ANYTHING FOR HER. i put ALOT of effort in her... everytime a new guy tries to date her i would get so jealous. she would tell me the sweet things that these guys would do for her and that would make me feel really down. i wanna tell that i have more feelings for her, but i cant cause im afaid of losing her and things might just be really Awkward between us. EVERYONE can see us being together EVEN HER SISTER (the one i dated)EVERYONE except for her. i really doubt she feels the same too, cause everytime someone would ask about us two, she'd be like "EWW, he's like a brother to me" also her standards of her ideal guy is someone im not... PLEASE I NEED SOME advise.
The odds are not in your favor.
She has made it clear that she loves you as a brother not otherwise.
If you want to bring the subject up tell her you are "developing feelings" for her. She will know what you mean and respond accordingly. Make sure you don't sound desperate or that could make things awkward.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com