Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
ok umm well i had a crush on this guy for like 3 months maybe but i have alot of shyness issues when i like someone and they are shy too i ignore them for some reason kinda like i dont wanna say something stupid and embarrass myself you kno! and like this guy is really shy when u talk to him at first ! but the funny thing is that i had a crush on him before we even had a convosation! and like ok i finally told him you know i really think your cute and i wanna get to know you is that ok? he didnt respond back(i wrote him a letter thats why) but the next day i talked to him really well we talked about alot of subjects like what do i wanna be in life and all and where i work and how he works before school at 4 in the morning and then goes to school and then after school he goes to work in anothewr town he works 6 days a week and all ! and then i asked him ehy do you have a girl friend? he said yeah and then he asked me do you have a boyfriend? i of course said no! and like we kept tlaking and talking and what im trying to know is whether i should still talk to him flirty and all like i mean i really like him ! his girl friend is really jealous type she doesnt live in the same city or nothing it seems to me that he barely talks to her because of how much he works you know i like him alot and i want to know if he even will give me a chance?
what do you think? Advice
Tell him you don't want to come between him and his g/f.

Tell him you should keep it at close friends for now but if he ever breaks up with his g/f you might still be interested in him.

This will make him think over who he is really interested in-- and it might be you.

Good luck! George

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