Crush.... to go after her or not?

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I know this girl (introduced by a friend) about a month ago and i have a crush on her. I want to get closer to her to know her more. As i have just came out of a 6 years relationship and i have become rather rusty with this courting game. I went out twice with her and confess to her that i had a crush on her on the 2nd outing. From then, I do not know how to approach her. When i'm out with her, i'm quiet, rather nervous. I do not know what to speak with her. We have not seen each other for more then almost 2 weeks after the 2nd outing. She told me that she is busy and all? I really want to have a decent exciting conversation with her. What exciting things should I do, to get her interested. Please help me!!! Advice
There is no way I can help you in a brief online message.

My best advice is to go to then choose BOOKS and then search for DATING. There are almost 150,000 books listed. Spend about $50 and get three books that look good (choose wisely). Or go to a local bookstore and buy them there.

As far as something exciting to do with this woman... get some nice tickets to a show, concert, or whatever and invite her to go.

Good luck! George

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