It's me again, the shy/confused one!!
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Hello this is well, me. I e-mailed you a while ago about the situation I had. I'm a 9th grader, he's a 7th grader, I asked him out last year, he rejected me, now everyone thinks he likes me (even his mom), and now I'm just here. Remember? I hope so. Well, I really don't want to make the first move AGAIN, it's just not me, because I'm really shy. The last time I tried it was really tough, and I don't think I could try again. But today, I think he's trying to make me jealous. He said he was with his friends, and he saw this "hott" girl and asked her out without even really knowing her. Well, he got slapped, but is he really making me jealous? Am I just fooling myself? What should I do???????? :(
I will suggest the same thing I said the last time you wrote.
You should get over your shyness and make the first move again. If he says yes then every thing is ok.
Or if you prefer, tell him you are "developing feelings" for him and see what he says.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com