I still love him. Do I tell or keep my mouth shut?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
We broke up almost one year ago. He is seeing someone else and so am I. I am with someone else to help me get over my Ex and it has helped tremendously. My Ex told me that he fell out of love for me and I told him I didn't want to be friends. We haven't talked for a while until just recently. I saw him on the road and he turned his car around just to say hi. Then he shows up at my grandmothers on New Year's Eve and gives her photos to give to me (not of us) that were mine and he asks her if I was there. I emailed him to say thanks and he wanted to know all about my life. Like how I was and about my new boyfriend. He says he's very happy in life. But why would he care so much about me if we're done? Why would he want to know about me so badly? I love him and I want him back. I'm scared if I tell him this he will run and because of the fact he has a girlfriend. Plus I have a boyfriend who is in love with me and telling my Ex that I love him would be wrong. What should I do? Keep my mouth shut or take a BIG risk?
Your ex may have friendly feelings for you and that's why he is contacting you.
He says he is happy with his life so why should you doubt him? If you want to test the waters continue the friendship he has started and see where it leads.
If you are going to pursue him because you love him then you owe it to your current b/f to tell him the truth. You also should tell your ex that you love him so that he can be honest with his g/f.
Keep in mind, though, that he dumped you once and could do it again even if you got him back.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com