Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Hi, actually i have wrote in previously and it is still about the same guy.
We have actually went for a few dates aand things are quite smooth untill one day when he talked about me being so different from him. For instance, the life we lead and the friends we mixed with. He said that i am a really nice girl and i will bound to find someone good too. Since that day, we stopped talking and i didnt contact him for around 2 weeks already. Is is trying to say that we should just stay as friends as we are not compatible? But he was the one who told my friend that he feels like getting into a relationship with me and also he said he will treat me real good. Should i just let go or should i confront him? Thanks for your help.
When he said you were different, he was looking for you to say no.
He wanted to hear you say that you love him, or like him, or wherever you are in your relationship.
Remember he is shy, so he needs support from you to make him feel better. If you are still interested in him then call him and give him that support. Otherwise let him go.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com