Stuck in a hard place
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I have been with a guy for three months and from day one he told me he had two kids and the mother of his kids still lives under the same roof with him.
Now I am in a predictament that there are now strong feelings involved...I want to believe that he will make a decision soon but nothing yet. He says he wants to stay until his kids understand and he wants his kids in his life and vice versa. He says he has strong feelings for me...
I think he needs to tell her what is goin on and deal with it..
Will he leave or am I wastin my time??
You are wasting your time.
He told you he won't leave until the kids and he are ready. This could take years. He is not going to make a decision after only knowing you for three months.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com