Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
My boyfriend and I have loads of things in common and a lot to talk about, but because the relationship is rather new, I always freeze up and get nervous. I end up sort of muddling along through the conversation and think of great things to say later. I don't get why I get so nervous. How can I stop being nervous and carry on an intelligent conversation?
Tell him you want him to know that because of the newness of your relationship that you still feel shy when talking with him.
By sharing those feelings it will help him understand why you act the way you do. It will also encourage him to help you overcome the problem.
You will probably feel shy about telling him this, but it is very important for you to do.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com