Will he ever notice the real me?
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
The first day I've met him was like a carefree day. Nothing on our minds that would cause any harm to each other. Now a year past and I'm now 15. Yeah he is older than me. like about 9 years older, but does age really matter so much that nothing (a relationship) can happen between us?
We've been through times where I was mad at him. Most of the reasons was because of what he did that made me feel sad inside. I tell him that he is the only one I talk to on the phone and online, and the only one that I want to see. He knows that I like him and want to be with him, but nothing happened between us. One day out of nowhere he ASKS me if it was o.k. for him to see other girls. All this time, even now, I've wondered if he really loves me. Wondered if he cares for me the way I do. Wondered if he is still clueless about us. I don't know what we are, either friends, friends with benefits, lovers, or two strangers who doesn't know who one another is.
If you can give me advice for my situation, the pain of somber inside will stop. I've turned to everyone, everything, but they don't really understand...
Since he is asking if it is ok to see other women, you can be sure that he doesn't love you.
You are only seeking heartache by remaining with him, but you may be willing to risk it. Just be mentally prepared.
Concerning the age difference, at 15 you are not legally of age to give consent to sex. Your b/f can go to jail for being with you.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com