I cant deal with this any longer.
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Ok so i met this boy and one day we were talking online and he suggested we'd hangout. so later on that night we did. and everything was amazing. i can tell he liked me and he was putting his arm around me and everthing was just great. so he told me he should start heading back home and so we hugged and then we kissed.And that was my FIRST kiss. so it was really special to me! the kiss was amazing! so later on that night we talked online and everything was fine and great. but then the next day he didnt talk to me at all and i even tried to message him on myspace but he only responded a little bit. and then the next day he didnt even talk to me at all! and same with the next day! and now hes going out with another girl!i dont know what was going on! i've been crying ever since the day we kissed. please help me. Why would he do this? And what do i do? i tried to talk to him but he doesnt respond to me. i even felt it was necessary for me to commit suicide! i cant stop crying and thinking about it! please help me.
First off, if you are considering suicide you should tell your parents, or call 911, or tell your school psychologist. Your troubles are too deep to be answered on the internet.
I can tell you that you will feel better after a while and that boys in your age group are very immature and do stupid things without thinking of how they are affecting another person.
He probably likes you but got distracted by another girl before he could get very interested in you.
It is too bad this had to happen on your fist kiss. Please don't think all boys are as stupid as he is.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com