What's the best way to redeem the situation?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I've recently met someone in one of my classes and we get along very well, there's obviously something more between us but the prooblem is how to get that back on track since some recent events may have scared him.
A few weeks ago he quietly asked me to come to visit him during his lunch break on a saturday and since i had already arranged to go shopping with my friends i had to bring them along - he seemed quiet and eventually said that he had to return and take a different lunch break.
A few weeks on, one of the same friends decided to call him up without my permission when I was in another room and told him that we should get together (thats what she said she basically told him, but i still dont know what tone or manner she used.)
Since then I've recieved a text from him but no queries about the phone call he recieved.
I'm basically just a bit worried about how to react/behave when college starts back. Is this a good time to confront him with my feelings towards him or just to let the shock settle?
You need to clear things up with him.
He must be puzzled about what's going on. Let him know how you feel and explain, as best you can, what happened with your friends.
Maybe you could suggest a meeting before college gets back in session.
Good luck and Happy New Years! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com